Growing old is no longer a respected
option. We will probably all be
confronted someday with suddenly
finding that we are “old," but the
gradual, dignified, evolutionary
process of growing old is pretty
much prohibited. Old is not
acceptable. There are no longer any
reliable retirement options. Most
Americans will probably find that
they have to work well past 60, or
even 70, to maintain anything like
the lifestyle to which they have
become accustomed.
In the not too distant past, it
was acceptable that older people
could get by on less money at
retirement age than when they were
working. One could own a home and
all of the furnishings of life and
manage to live fairly well. Taxes
were lower then, utilities were
lower then, and the everyday cost of
living did not include all of the
assaults on the bank account that
come now.
In those days of the past, family
helped, society was forgiving, and
elders were sometimes poor, but
respected. In today’s America,
living on retirement income could
well mean living at the poverty
level. An individual would have to
save well over a million dollars to
be able to have interest income that
even begins to approach what many
are making in the working world.
Saving a million dollars in one’s
working lifetime is a big challenge,
and impossible for most.
If you are about 65, have been
working since you were about 20, and
have an income now around
50-thousand or 60-thousand a year
(which has been stable for a good
while), you might expect that your
social security could be around
$1400 to $1600 per month, if you
decide to retire. If you have saved,
you may supplement that with your
retirement interest income. If you
have been frugal with your saving,
maybe that could be another $600 to
$700 a month.
Whatever you do, don’t get sick.
If you become incapacitated at 70 or
80, and have to go to a nursing
home, all bets are off. If you don’t
have long term health insurance, the
experience will deplete your cash in
short time. Insurance runs out
quickly in that case, nursing home
bills can run $2000 to $4000 or more
a month, and you will have to pay
for it. If you decide to take the
Medicaid option and have the
government pay for your nursing home
experience, you are allowed to have
only just a little more than $2000
in the bank. In other words, you
can’t get help until you are broke,
and you will be broke in no time.
This leaves most Americans to opt
for the “Work 'til ya die" option.
Too bad! In a global economy the
highly competitive nature of the job
market doesn’t make any allowances
for the aged. In fact, maturity is
frowned upon in corporate America.
The “value proposition‿ (as so many
jingle-mouthed, young,
corporate-speak know-it-alls would
call it) package that an employee
brings to the table is thought, in
today’s market, to be severely
compromised by advancing age. You
become viewed as a liability to the
group insurance plan, a loose canon
in the diversity scheme, and too
inflexible and irrelevant.
Don't expect any acknowledgement
that some of the inflexibility of
maturity on the job may come from
having learned by doing exactly the
thing that is being proposed, and
not wanting to make the same
mistakes again. Many older Americans
are also perfectly willing to accept
all of the high moral and
philosophical concepts of diversity,
until it becomes a code name for
shoveling Americans out the
corporate door in exchange for
hiring the lowest paid foreigners
one can find to do the job.
In many countries of the world
elders are respected, even honored.
Increasingly in America elders are
viewed with resentment and
intolerance. Even worse, they become
almost invisible. Marketing
discounts their buying power,
focusing on the 18-35, or 35-49
market shares. This means that media
content and the commercial world are
generally ignoring elders. Elders
are certainly treated as irrelevant
in the world of technology, where it
is assumed that they are simply not
going to be players. Many older
Americans are frustrated and
depressed by where they find
themselves. It is a desperation
summed up pretty well in Oscar
Brown's now famous poem
"This Beach."
For every American over 60 who
has had a sales clerk speak loudly
to them in phrases like one would
use talking to a child, all of this
becomes very real. It can happen in
one surprising incident that
suddenly plunges one into the
realization he/she is being seen as
“old." Maybe the country is too
invested in the practice of
discarding the old to turn back. It
is about to become a huge issue, as
an entire generation of newly old
Americans angrily refuses to be
discarded.